My Dad Is Bisexual

No child has ever said that in public for two reasons. Bisexual men don't tell their wives. Secondly fathers don't discuss such things with young sons. It is the man's choice, but it should not be forced on the whole country through the classroom, change the English language and criminalize us for saying there are men and women, bears and gazelles, cats and mice. 

Being bisexual is a choice. It is something certain men want, to have sex with wives and girlfriends when they feel like it, and with other men if the mood guides them to that direction. It’s their body.

Another body is involved here, the wife’s or girlfriend’s. The whole LGB … alphabet is about sex elasticity and it happens between two consenting adults or more, if they frequent places called baths or parks at night. I came across gay men ‘crawling’ for the first time in Geneva, one summer. I was on a ‘romantic’ stroll with a boyfriend after dinner.  I felt uneasy seeing many men standing against trees. I told Roger we should turn back. He laughed and said I was safe. They were waiting for other men who would give them sex.

It is a personal matter. Grown men do what they want with their bodies, but how about women in their lives? They will unknowingly get diseases such as HIV/AIDS. They don’t know anything, but the bisexual in the LGB …. alphabet has never been an issue for public debate because it is a private matter. It is nobody’s business.

Telling boys they can have sex with each other and old men who will claim to ‘love’ them, is everybody’s business. The LGB …. alphabet cannot accuse society of intolerance. Bisexuality has serious implications for family life, but society stays out of it. Who is society? All animals, including humans. They were born because the human race is male and female. They in turn, have sons and daughters.

Society was tolerant of gays and lesbians until that tolerance was taken for stupidity. That is why the LGB … alphabet is gunning for little boys. Society has been tolerant, that’s why the alphabet keeps growing. Their whole lifestyle used to be have one word ‘queer’ because it was alien sexual activity. They did their thing. Nobody cared.

Here we are, we have a minority pushing down sexual experiments down the throats of the majority, that doesn’t understand fancy words like puberty-blockers. They just know that schools are for boys and girls. Schools are playgrounds. Schools are not public parks, for free sex. How did we get here? Because of tolerance. The LGB … alphabet keeps growing and growing because it knows it is wrong.  A dog is a cat. A mouse is not a cat. Period. You are free to think otherwise, but don’t force it on the majority. Better still, call a referendum or change the constitution.

By: Nonqaba waka Msimang.