False Claims Discredit Real Wife Abuse
There is wife abuse in marriage. In-laws know about it, teachers know, the reverend father knows, so do kids. Girlfriends tolerate it in live-in arrangements, which is hard to understand, but it happens.
That’s why women who lie against men, damage the credibility of women who live that reality but stay because of culture, religion, kids or economic dependency.
Did Jonathan Majors do it? The court will decide but if he had been a window cleaner, cab driver or courier, his girlfriend would not have accused him of assault. We don’t know all the facts because it’s only the two of them that know the truth, but high profile men continue to be the target for wrong claims.
Because the internet does not have a ‘sorry’ button, we don’t read about coaches and players who were found not guilty, of wife or girlfriend abuse. Their innocence did not make headlines and their life is now broken glass. High profile men know that dollar signs are the attraction.
Tiger Woods the golfer, tried to protect himself by signing an agreement with ex girlfriend Erica Herman, not to discuss their private life in public. That didn’t help. She has gone to court for what we can call girlfriend forever rights? She wants to continue staying on his property, although it’s all over.
Some women boast about wrongly accusing a man of abuse. It is usually revenge, when men do not agree to the ultimate: marriage. How do women who are beaten on the regular feel about false claims? They get ready for the next beating, because nobody will believe them. After all women lie, don’t they?
“Put more foundation on that face. Don’t let people know your business.”
By: Nonqaba waka Msimang.
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