Pavement Etiquette

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Yield. That is what two umbrellas should do when they meet on the pavement.

Spring should be a happy season, when the land springs to life activated by spring rain. Not everybody agrees. That’s why some people are grumpy under the umbrella, and even forget basic pavement etiquette.

I find spring rain soothing, but I stand far away from traffic lights, to avoid cars that accelerate on the puddles. Some splash me but I weigh the aggravation on my scale. Should it vex me? The scale says not worth it for the simple reason that the car is gone. Don’t bother yourself with something you cannot control. Point taken.

I love spring rain because it has manners. It’s gentle. It is not accompanied by angry wind that overturns umbrellas, which brings us to pavement etiquette. Two umbrellas cannot meet and get acquainted. It’s just impossible. Adjustments must be made. When I see you coming, I tilt my umbrella a little bit to avoid collision. Very few people return the favor. I think it is deliberate because attackers don’t make eye contact. They make me invisible. No problem. I will subscribe to pavement etiquette and tilt my umbrella.

It’s all about my aggravation scale. There’s nothing I can do about rude pavement citizens. One thing I’m grateful for, is that I was not driving a car yesterday because I saw a guy inside the road, texting on his bicycle when it was raining. He knows drivers will get the blame should anything happen to him. Cyclists do as they please on pavements and roads. No law applies to them.

Nonqaba waka Msimang

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