Women Misunderstand Men

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Men have other interests besides women. Most women live just for them.

It’s nothing personal. Most men are not bad humans. They just love two or three women, more in cultures that accommodate polygamy. Because women misunderstand men, they end up with broken hearts, some commit suicide, others end up in mental hospitals or commit murder.

It’s nothing personal. That is why polygamy was in-built in ancient societies. Men had limited importance. The overall focus was on the society: children; collecting food; putting in place structures to ward off nature when it was angry; music to celebrate food and to praise local gods.

The heart is the engine that ensures we sleep and wake up. It is therefore irresponsible to equate such a delicate but vital organ with a man’s decision not to take your calls, to go out with other women, not to come home on Friday, or to disappear into thin air. Ancient women knew he will come back, so they didn’t call missing persons.

Women don’t understand men because of the monopoly syndrome. The Hollywood play book is largely responsible for that. I love you, white weddings and just the two of us homes, is the monopoly syndrome.

Women marry for the monopoly syndrome. He is mine and mine alone, but the owner does not see himself that way. He wears a wedding ring, but his mind is not tied up. He loves being a man. He appreciates nature, other than yourself. Men don't want to die and go to heaven, because it's right here. The internet is the garden of Eden, with women of every hue and size.

Because of the monopoly syndrome, women tend to ask questions: Who were you talking to on the phone? Where have you been? Why was your phone switched off? Men resent that and the name calling begins.  Women nag. Men are scum.

There were no divorce statistics in ancient societies because men were not that important. Women understood that they could not tame the sun. Today’s women want the monopoly syndrome. That’s why men don’t want to get married.

It’s nothing personal. It’s not because you gained weight or just had a child. That’s the way it is. Understand that, you will be healthy mentally.

By: Nonqaba waka Msimang.

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