Kids Are Color Free
Prince Harry's son Archie and his mother meet Anglican Church Archbishop Desmond Tutu in Soweto, South Africa. One of the things that baffled me when I arrived in England from South Africa was toddlers’ smiles. Why would a white child smile at me? Apartheid forbids mingling of the races. It took a while to realize that kids in England see me as a human being, not a black woman. That is the natural canvass, blank. The child grows up. Parents go to the store and buy big and small racial paint brushes. Kids are mimics so they grow up with the convoluted canvass. Racial slurs, window smashing, school bullying, kicks, murder and cross burning replace toddlers’ smiles. As I got used to white kids smiling at me, I went back and dusted some memories. White and black kids in South Africa never met because they were born in separate hospitals, lived in separate neighborhoods, went to separate schools and the beach was divided into black and white. Despite all that, there were instances whe