Don't Take Teddy Bears To Africa
We ‘civilized ‘ Africa for many reasons.
AFRICANS | EUROPEANS |
Midwives delivered babies. | Hospital delivery. |
The placenta was buried at home, in the yard to bond kids with their land. | Placenta is medical waste. |
Plants from forests provided medicine for mother and baby. | Mothers bought medicine from the chemist/pharmacy. |
Babies slept with mothers. | Babies slept alone in their cots, in their rooms. |
Breastfeeding for six months or more. | Bottle feeding. |
New mothers were surrounded by other women like mother-in-law, sister-in-law, midwife and grandmothers. | New mothers at home alone or learning from books. |
New mothers in isolation away from husbands and house work. | New mother works, takes care of baby, husband, cooking and other chores. |
Mothers covered babies in animal skins. | Pink clothes for girls, blue clothes for boys. |
Babies crawled naked around the yard. | Colour-coded clothes for boys and girls. |
Babies never missed mothers’ warmth because mothers carried them on their backs or slings. | Babies lose mother’s warmth at birth because they sleep alone, and travel in strollers/prams. |
When babies grew up, they slept with other boys or girls on grass sleeping mats. | They slept with teddy bears in their own rooms. |
When they grew up, they ate from the big plate the family used. | They ate alone from feeding chairs and later their own plates. |
When they grew up, they learned how to tend and milk cows, fetch water, harvest corn, cook, sweep and how to address elders. | They went to school to learn reading and writing. Mothers stayed home, waiting for 18 years, when they’ll leave home. |
We had to take their land in order to ‘civilize’ them, and force them to face hardship European mothers knew so well.
Another ‘written podcast’ from Nonqaba waka Msimang.
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